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Submitted: 3/7/20 • Approved: 12/2/22 • Last Updated: 12/10/22 • R1302745-G1302745-S3
Howard 26 Sept 1933 - 13 Nov 2021
Mary 19 Mar 1941 - 29 Sept 2016
Marriage: 31 Oct 1961
Howard Jeffery husband of Mary L Jeffery.
**obituary
September 26, 1933 - November 13, 2021
Howard Jeffery, 88, of Little Rock, Arkansas, who did NOT die of COVID, passed away Saturday, November 13, 2021. He was born September 26, 1933.
Howard led a life of diversity. Growing up in Mount Olive, Arkansas he was one of seven children raised in a house with no electricity and no indoor plumbing. Elementary school was in the proverbial one room school house. When he started high school he would take a train to Calico Rock, spending the week with relatives. His father, having a penchant for nicknames, gave each of his children one. Howard's started out as Honey Bay but was eventually shortened to just Bay. To his family and friends he is still known as that today.
Following high school, he joined the Air Force as a Medic. His first duty station was Chambly France. A twenty year old boy straight out of the hills was suddenly in Europe; and he thrived. Suffice it to say, with the looks of a young Elvis, many good times were had in France. (Wink wink). His tours eventually took him to Grand Forks N.D. where, through a convoluted circumstance involving his best friend and our mother's sister and brother, he went on a blind date with his soon to be wife, Mary. They wed on October 31, 1961 and their first child, Don, was born on May 25, 1962. We (his children) soon learned to count and eventually figured out there is only seven months between those two dates. Their second child, Teresa, was soon born, followed by their unnamed baby boy.
After two tours in Thailand (more good times had) in the mid 60's serving as a helicopter flight medic, he and his family transferred to Biloxi, Mississippi where they had another baby boy, James. Following retirement, they moved to Arkansas where he started a second career as a heating and air technician. The ensuing years brought forth another daughter, (a half-sister) Beth. Needless to say, Mary wasn't too pleased. However, their love prevailed and they were married fifty-six years upon her passing.
A running joke was he would check the obits for his name and was happy it wasn't there. Sorry to tell you dad, but it's in today's paper. I was fortunate to have had him live with me for the past four years. To learn who he was beyond the memories of a child. To have his granddaughter get to know him and to have playful banter back and forth. He was a loving husband and a pretty good dad most of the time. He taught his children to be respectful, to show compassion to all and the best way to not get caught.
He was preceded in death by his wife, Mary; daughter, Teresa; and unnamed baby son.
Survivors: sons, Donald and James; daughter Mary Elizabeth.
A memorial service will be held on December 4, 2021 at Cumberland Presbyterian Church in Mount Olive, Arkansas. If you knew him, y'all are welcome to come. If he owed you money, please stay away. We love you dad.
In lieu of flowers, please send a donation to the Pulaski County Humane Society.
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Contributed on 3/7/20 by sandhollow
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